From communication expert Jefferson Fisher, the definitive book on making your next conversation the one that changes everything
No matter who you’re talking to, The Next Conversation gives you immediately actionable strategies and phrases that will forever change how you communicate. Jefferson Fisher, trial lawyer and one of the leading voices on real-world communication, offers a tried-and-true framework that will show you how to transform your life and your relationships by improving your next conversation.
Fisher has gained millions of followers through short, simple, practical videos teaching people how to argue less and talk more. Whether it’s handling a heated conversation, dealing with a difficult personality, or standing your ground with confidence, his down-to-earth teachings have helped countless people navigate life’s toughest situations. Now for the first time, Fisher has distilled his three-part communication system (Say it with control, Say it with confidence, Say it to connect) that can easily be applied to any situation.
You will learn:
Why you should never “win” an argument
How to assert yourself and communicate with intention
How to set boundaries and frame conversations
Why saying less is often more
How to overcome conflict with connection
The Next Conversation will give you practical phrases that will lead to powerful results, from breaking down defensiveness in a hard talk with a family member to finding your own assertive voice at the boardroom conference table. Your every word matters, and by controlling how you communicate every day, you will create waves of positive impact that will resonate throughout your relationships to last a lifetime.
Everything you want to say, and how you want to say it, can be found in The Next Conversation.
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專業人身傷害訴訟律師提供的三大溝通策略
讓你的下一次對話改變一切
在日常生活中、在職場上,甚至在家庭裡,我們總會碰到不好相處的人、無法避免的爭論,以及困難的對話。這時,我們常常會想……
「早知道剛剛就這樣說!」
「如何清楚表達我的想法?」
「要怎麼溝通才不會吵起來?」
「如何回應對方的挑釁或貶低?」
這正是作者傑佛森・費雪每天要面對的難題。費雪身為專業的人身傷害訴訟律師,也是現實世界的頂尖溝通專家,他在本書中強調,重點並不在於應該說什麼,而是應該怎麼說。
他將每天在現實世界中處理爭吵、分歧、激烈爭論,以及艱難對話時汲取的教訓,整理成教科書和課堂沒有教、源自實際經驗的實用建議。
無論是要面對激烈的爭論、應付難搞的人物,或是自信堅守立場,書中的務實技巧能夠幫助讀者輕鬆應用在各種對話情境,克服生活中的棘手難題。這些技巧可歸納為三大法則:
1. 掌控你的說話方式。
2. 說話時要有自信。
3. 說話是為了建立連結。
作者還提供隨時能派上用場的策略和語句,以及禁得起考驗的溝通框架,幫助讀者透過改善下一次對話,來改變日常生活和人際關係。
你想表達的一切,以及你想表達的方式,解答都在本書裡。
各界好評
費雪結合個人獨特的專業知識和非凡能力,將以證據為本的方法淬煉為輕鬆好記的工具,不僅讓人第一次就上手,也讓今後的每次交流都能創造更有效的對話。——安德魯.胡柏曼博士(Andrew Huberman),史丹佛大學醫學院神經生物學系教授、胡柏曼實驗室(Huberman Lab)Podcast頻道創辦人
我們都會在生活中遇到難搞的人,也會需要進行艱難的對話。沒有人比傑佛森.費雪更適合引領你展開對話。本書將提供你扭轉人生的工具,藉由一次次的對話創造改變。——梅爾.羅賓斯(Mel Robbins),《紐約時報》(New York Times)第一名暢銷書作者、梅爾.羅賓斯Podacst(The Mel Robbins Podcast)主持人
這本別開生面的著作,將告訴你如何以自信與清晰的表達,面對每一次對話與協商。傑佛森.費雪就是你所需的真實世界嚮導。如果你想洞悉人心,你絕對需要這本書。——克里斯.佛斯(Chris Voss),國際暢銷書《FBI談判協商術》作者、黑天鵝集團(The Black Swan Group)創辦人
傑佛森.費雪正在改變我們與自己、他人以及孩子們的溝通方式。他的實用策略和有效語句是我的必備工具,讓我展現出自信、堅強和積極主動的一面,並與他人建立情感連結。——貝琪.甘迺迪博士(Dr. Becky Kennedy),《紐約時報》第一名暢銷書《Good Inside教養逆思維》作者
——中文簡介摘自天下文化出版《不吵架也能贏的溝通術》